“O Lord, how long will you forget me? Forever? How long must you look the other way? How long must I struggle with anguish in my soul, with sorrow in my heart every day?” (King David, Psalm 13).
Have you ever felt this way? Forgotten by God? Disregarded? Anguished? In despair? I have. And I am so grateful that David put his words down for me to read. One of the most remarkable things about David’s words as written throughout the Psalms is that he often finds his resolve through writing. Continuing through Psalm 13, David pours out his anguish which leads to anger, then desperation, and finally a resolve to trust in God. I can almost sense David taking a deep breath before he pens the words of verse 5, “But I trust in your unfailing love.”
David found his resolve in part by writing out his prayer. The process of writing has the potential to bring you through your feelings, and that’s really what you want to do – move through your feelings. Feelings have a way of moving us, and when left unchecked, feelings can mingle with thoughts and orchestrate us to say or do things we don’t really mean. I believe the pastime of writing can help you get in touch with your feelings, identify your thoughts, and ultimately find both resolve and resolution. David was a man of God. Even as he sinned and made major mistakes, he was devoted to the Lord. Through his writing he was able to get in touch with his feelings and the messages in his mind (such as “God has forgotten me”) and settle upon a truth that is deeper than any thought or feeling – God’s unfailing love for him.
You and I can tap into that resolve by taking time to express ourselves through written words. The act of putting pen to paper engages the left side of the brain which exercises logic and organizational thought, while the right side of the brain is free to create, intuit, and feel. Writing opens the window to let you see what’s inside yourself (thoughts and feelings) and express what you find in a safe and contained manner (it’s just you, God, the pen, and paper).
As you write, you work to remove mental blocks that can hinder you from getting clarity on what’s really going on. With greater clarity, you may be able to determine what you really want or need in the moment (something that can be challenging when feelings scream back, urging to find immediate relief).
Do not agonize over the process of writing. You don’t have to be a “writer” or have experience with journaling in order to experience the healing benefit -- just a willingness to engage the process of writing to see where it leads.
P.S. It is not always necessary to share your writing with another person (although that in and of itself can be quite healing). Re-reading what you have written can be enough to let yourself “hear” what’s really going on in your heart, mind, and soul. When you have entered that place, and your heart can speak, you might find you are ready to listen. The Holy Spirit is always listening.
May you find blessing as you learn to express yourself through writing. May it serve to release burdens from your heart and draw you closer to God.